Teenagers – Author Kandi J Wyatt https://kandijwyatt.com Mother of Dragons Fri, 01 Jan 2016 02:41:34 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 https://i0.wp.com/kandijwyatt.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/cropped-kandy_wyatt-logo_purple.png?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 Teenagers – Author Kandi J Wyatt https://kandijwyatt.com 32 32 111918409 Reflecting on the old and looking to the New Year https://kandijwyatt.com/reflecting-on-the-old-and-looking-to-the-new-year/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=reflecting-on-the-old-and-looking-to-the-new-year Fri, 01 Jan 2016 02:41:34 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.wordpress.com/?p=542 Continue reading →]]> As I sit and read through Facebook, I see all these posts about the new year and resolutions. I began to think back through this year. A lot has happened.

crecent city familyFirst off, last year this day, we welcomed an exchange student from Spain’s Basque Country to our family. He was with us for four months. I had four teenagers in the house at once–two seniors, a junior, and a seventh grader. It was never dull. Dinner time was full of laughter and learning about Spain.

Then in February I went to a writer’s conference with my two seniors. I enjoyed my day and had fun. I learned a lot about writing. I also heard about a publisher by the name of Booktrope. Little did I know how that would change what would happen in my year. By March, Dragon’s Future had been accepted for publication! I started this website and was amazed that people I didn’t know would want to receive an email telling them when I posted a blog.

June brought two graduations in one day. It was a busy day because the schools were fifty minutes away from each other. Our seventeen-year-old son graduated first, and then a few hours later I was able to give a hug to my nineteen-year-old daughter and the rest of her classmates after they had picked up the diplomas and were returning to their seats. It was a very special day.

My two seniors. The oldest graduated after the younger one.

My two seniors. The oldest graduated after the younger one.

July saw camps for the kids, computer time for me to prepare book trailers and edit two books, and a French exchange student came for a visit. It was a busy month at home. Dragon’s Future released in August. It was an exciting time as I had my first author interviews via web blogs, radio, and youtube channel videos. I also took four girls to the University of Oregon to learn about college life, while I took a workshop on Mindset.

School started in September. My youngest entered eighth grade, and my nineteen-year-old started college at the local community college. In October, The One Who Sees Me released on the same weekend that my eighteen-year-old headed off to college. Even though he is number four child, he was the first to really leave to go to college. It was a tough weekend. I was so proud of him stepping out and making friends.

Wyatt Family Thanksgiving 2015 (3 of 3)November began the holiday season. We were able to see our eighteen-year-old for the first time over Thanksgiving. We enjoyed a quiet meal with my folks and the family. The Saturday after Thanksgiving, we set up our tree and prepared for Christmas. I finished a new fantasy story I had started back in May and gained several new ideas for stories as well. December 8th, Dragon’s Heir released.

As I look to 2016, I don’t know what all it will bring. I have some things scheduled, but I know God has a way of throwing surprises our way as well. So, I am open to what He wants to bring our way. I look forward to the release of Dragon’s Revenge in April, Dragon’s Cure in August, and Dragon’s Posterity in December. I want to finish writing a story about Ruskya and Duskya that takes place right after the prologue to Dragon’s Future. I want to write a story that takes place in Egypt and then continue the series I just started this year. I also have some ideas of stories of the Carr–all based where Dragon’s Revenge takes place. So, we will see.

What has your year been like? Do you have anything you want to share? Feel free to comment below. And have a blessed New Year!

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There is Always Hope https://kandijwyatt.com/there-is-always-hope/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=there-is-always-hope Sun, 30 Aug 2015 04:05:47 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.wordpress.com/?p=385 Continue reading →]]> I rounded the corner and the sight that greeted me brought tears to my eyes. The closest place to park was two blocks away from the gym; the parking lot was full as well as all parking a block on the other side. The line wound its way Out the door and down the sidewalk. Later the tears turned to a stream as the fireman strode to the front of the gym and explained. In days gone by, the fire bell rang to give warning of a fire, but when the firemen left their shift, they would ring three sets of five bells. So saying, he walked to the bell and began to sound it–one, two, three, four, five, and again, and again. Then he walked away. Over the pagers came the dispatch. Last call for firefighter David Handsaker. Was this firefighter lost in the line of duty? Was he one of many who fought the wildfires only to lose his own life? No, this was for a young eighteen-year-old volunteer who gave up hope and took his own life.

This wasn’t the first memorial service that I had attended for young person. Just shy of nine years ago I sat watching as my best friend suffered the loss of her daughter to suicide. Again, there was standing room only at that service. Both instances caused my family and me to sit back and ask why. It seems so pointless. All those hurting people left behind–all ages from young elementary school to peers to parents to grandparents and everyone in between. We feel the loss and cry. Often in the case of suicide, the person is hurting and can see no way through. However, as it was stated today at the service, when a person takes his or her own life, they take their pain and hurt and let it be multiplied to all those left behind.

I ask you today not to give up hope. Please if life seems unbearable, reach out to someone to ask for help. Quite often our perspective gets skewed. We think we are the only one to be in that situation. We can’t see the others waiting to help. This is common. Even the prophet Elijah felt the same way. He thought he was all alone, but God told him there were 7,000 who were still faithful. If all seems lost, if you have no one to listen to you, you can comment below or use the prayer request box on the side bar to contact me. I’m not a trained counselor, but I will listen. It isn’t worth it to give up and believe the lies that your life is not worth living or that others would be better off without you. There is a purpose for your life. You never know how many lives you will touch. David was just a quiet kid who volunteered with the fire department. His life touched over 300 people (that’s just how many were able to make it to the service). We never know how our lives will impact others. Keep hoping; Keep believing.

If you have lost someone to suicide and need a listening ear, you too can either comment or use the prayer request form at the side to contact me.

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