Author Kandi J Wyatt https://kandijwyatt.com Mother of Dragons Mon, 14 Sep 2026 04:23:32 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1 https://i0.wp.com/kandijwyatt.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/cropped-cropped-kandy_wyatt-logo-2.png?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 Author Kandi J Wyatt https://kandijwyatt.com 32 32 111918409 Top 5 Wisest Counselors: Silmaril Awards 2026 https://kandijwyatt.com/top-5-wisest-counselors-silmaril-awards-2026/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=top-5-wisest-counselors-silmaril-awards-2026 https://kandijwyatt.com/top-5-wisest-counselors-silmaril-awards-2026/#respond Mon, 14 Sep 2026 04:23:20 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10979 I stood in my kitchen wondering what to do. My daughter had just notified us that the girls, our two granddaughters, were going to be in the Cranberry Festival Parade. Since their new aunt was on the court, I knew it’d be fun to see the parade and explore the vendor booths, but… I had a houseful of guests.

The previous week

Last week this time, we arrived home late. We’d been in the hospital for my husband’s urgent (not emergent) gallbladder surgery. While there we’d managed to pick up Professor Kirke, and then somehow ended up with enough room in the Prius to bring him back as well as a Costco run (which included my husband’s pain killers.) When we arrived, a man who looked much like my husband greeted us, helping bring in supplies. As he set down a box, I saw a mark on his hand. He quickly hid it, but I cocked my head.

“Brom?”

“At your service.” He turned to see my husband carrying the other box. “Let me get that for you.”

“I’ve got it,” my husband said as he set it on the island.

I shook my head this was going to be a long week.


At least my guests allowed us to sleep in, but by Sundy afternoon I came downstairs to find a man standing, looking slightly lost.

img="Rendar from Moonscript by H. S. J. Williams"

“Can I help you?” I asked.

“Is this where wisest counselors are gathering? I’m accustomed to inter-worlds travel, but this is a first for me.”

I chuckled. “You and me both. Welcome. I’m Kandi, your hostess. Care for a cup of…” I paused remembering I hadn’t ordered any more loose-leaf tea yet. “Coffee?”

“I… I’m not sure. I suppose I could try it.”

With something to do, I continued to make my newest guest feel at home.


Monday afternoon, three women escorted my husband in from the garage.

“I told you I could do it.” The woman adjusted her pink stole which was knotted around an overcoat; she was definitely overdressed for the warm September day.

“I never doubted you,” a plump woman with thick spectacles said.

The third ignored the other two and patted my husband’s arm. “I do believe he overdid it. We arrived just in time.”

“What were you doing now?” I asked my husband.

He shrugged, looking quite tired. “Only grinding shearing tool.”

I shook my head. “If you take him upstairs, he can show you to your rooms. And thank you, Mrs. Which. Or are you Mrs. Who?”

The three just smiled as my husband led them upstairs.


My home, although spacious, was starting to feel crowded. Gandalf, the two professors, and Brom had the third floor, and the three sisters now occupied the room across from mine. We couldn’t take many more guests.

Tuesday, went smoothly. As we walked the block to the photography studio, I was impressed with how well my husband could keep up. His healing was coming along. Before we made it the block to the studio, a man in a threadbare cloak approached us. Since we’d been known to wander the area in our own medieval garb, this didn’t surprise us. But it was his piercing blue eyes and long white beard that caught my attention.

“Is that a broadsword?” my husband asked the man, who glanced down.

“This?” He placed a hand on the hilt.

“Uh, yeah?”

The man shrugged and nodded. “Obviously, the world is not as I thought.”

I couldn’t hide a smirk.

“Yes, young lady?” The man glared at me with eyes full of knowledge and wisdom.

“Excuse me,” I said with a slight inclination of my head. “You may be another one of my guests. Are you purchance Dalmir of Turrim?”

A wary look crossed his aged face.

“It’s all right,” I soothed. “You’ve been called for the Silmaril Awards, and I’m your hostest. We’ll take you to our home.”

He muttered something into his beard, and I couldn’t help lean over and whisper, “Can I see the orb? It’s perfectly safe here.”

“Nothing is perfectly safe,” he grumbled, and I let it be.


By Friday, all was well. My guests were settling in, but I’d still not refreshed my tea stock. When Rendar refused coffee, but wished something hot to drink, I was at a loss.

There was a knock on the door.

“Good day, kind lady,” the gentleman said. “I hear you need tea. I may be of assistance. Let’s take a walk through your garden. There may be plants you need.”

“Why…” I don’t know why it threw me for a loop, but I finally found my voice. “Thank you. And you are?”

With a bow and a flourish, he said, “I am known as The Magus.”

Saturday’s happenings

Our walk wasn’t as successful as my tea-drinking guests would’ve wanted. There was a limited supply of spearmint and plantain leaves, but that was it. That evening, my final guest arrived. He’d have to share a room with The Magus, for I had no more beds available. But he, too, was a tea drinker.

As I stood in my kitchen wondering if I should leave my guests to their own devices while I went into town for the parade, my final guest, joined me, his hands wrapped around a mug. He hadn’t done anything but sip at what little tea I had, his eyes gazing into my soul as if he knew exactly what I was thinking.

Yet the more I watched him, the more I feared. Of all my guests, he seemed to be the one who would know a hundred ways to kill a person–and had discussed them at length with my husband over a mug of tea. Despite the fact that I believed he could kill me faster than a blink, I was still drawn to him like that cool uncle that everyone doesn’t understand but wants to be around.

It was at that moment that I realized what I needed to do.

“I’ll be right back!” I ran upstairs, grabbed my purse and returned. Athelas hadn’t moved, still holding his mug of tea. “I’ll go into town and bring back tea from Teas, Tinctures, and Tonics. Then you’ll have a good cup of tea.”

“Thank you,” he said with nod and turned back into the living room where Gandalf was discussing The Disaster of the Gladden Fields with the professors. “Why would you expend such a force of men when a single assassin would work?”

“You know nothing of orcs, sir,” Gandalf’s voice rose, and I second guessed myself.

Before I could chicken out, my husband joined me. I prayed our house would be left standing, and all our guests in one piece and unharmed when we returned.

Wisest Counselor 2026

Brom (Inheritance Cycle)
Athelas (The City Between)
Rendar (Moonscript)
The Magus (The Queen’s Thief)
Dalmir (The Turrim Archive)

Other Categories

Most Devoted Couple – T P Sarah at Light and Shadows
Most Epic Heroine – C. O. Bonham
Most Faithful Friend – Mackenzie K. Writes
Most Nefarious Villain – Janelle Leanne Schmidt
Strangest Character – E. E. Rawls
Most Magnificent Dragon – Rachel A. Greco
Most Epic Hero – DJ Edwards
Silver Tongue – S. L. Dooley
Most Rakish Rogue – Grace T

Where to Vote

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Wisest Counselor Nominations for 11th Annual Silmaril Awards https://kandijwyatt.com/wisest-counselor-nominations-for-11th-annual-silmaril-awards/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=wisest-counselor-nominations-for-11th-annual-silmaril-awards https://kandijwyatt.com/wisest-counselor-nominations-for-11th-annual-silmaril-awards/#comments Mon, 07 Sep 2026 12:58:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10963 I was anxiously gazing out the window, my attention torn between my husband’s gallbladder issues and the guests that would be showing up at my home four hours away. I’d left Gandalf in charge, and I wasn’t too sure if he was going to entertain our neighbors with his fireworks–and possibly get the sheriffs office called since fireworks are illegal in Oregon right now.

A bird flew past–a big bird. Blinking I tried to see where it went, calling to my husband, but he was stuck in the bed with a limited view out the window. Even with my own mobility I couldn’t see where it’d gone or what it’d been. Maybe just my imagination. I was slightly stressed with everything going on.

As I turned back to my husband, there was a tapping on the window. A white owl stood on the roof outside the glass! It cocked its head at me as if to say, “Well, are you going to open it?”

The twist knobs on the old-style windows were missing, but maybe… I lifted the lock and pushed on the frame. To my surprise, it opened!

The owl fluttered up to the landing and dropped a rolled piece of paper. Knowing, that Remus Lupin could’ve shown up while I was gone, I took the paper and its strange messenger in stride. Sure enough, it was signed by Remus.

img="message from Professor Lupin to author Kandi J Wyatt for Silmaril Awards"

No! Just what I’d been afraid of. I found a pen and hastily scribbled.

img="Message from author Kandi J Wyatt to Professor Lupin for Silmaril Awards 2026"

As I was eating breakfast in the cafeteria so my husband wouldn’t get jealous since he can’t have food until after the operation, my phone vibrated. A text message. Who hadn’t I given the most recent updates to? Donna? Wanda? Mom?

I frowned. Just a number. Warily I clicked on the text.

img="Text from Professor Hamilton to author Kandi J Wyatt"

Um… My brain tried to process this information.

img="text message from Kandi J Wyatt to Professor Hamilton"
img="second message from Professor Hamilton to author Kandi J Wyatt"

Professor Hamilton? I vaguely remembered he was from Dragons in Our Midst; I quickly typed out:

Yes, sorry about that. I’m not at home at the moment. My husband is having his gallbladder removed. We should be back by Monday.

Soon my phone pinged again:

Sorry to hear that. That still leaves me here at the airport. There’s not much here.

I chuckled as I typed back.

No there isn’t. Do you think you could contact Gandalf? Maybe the eagles could help?

There were no further text messages, and I finished my hashbrowns and eggs in peace.


When I returned to the room, my husband was chatting with an agreeable gentleman who had a British accent.

“…closet,” the man said. “First time for everything.”

“Kandi, meet Professor Kirke.”

My eyes probably looked like they’d pop out of their sockets if Professor Kirke could see them behind my dark lenses.

“What are you doing here?”

The professor held up both hands with a shrug.

“We can clean out the back of the Prius and take him home,” my husband suggested.

I shook my head. “I suppose so, but I didn’t think it’d be this much trouble hosting the Silmaril Awards.”

“What is wrong?” The professor glanced about and then his mouth fell open in a dignified ‘Oh.’ “This is a hospital!”

I nodded. “And if all of the former winners are showing up at odd places, how will the new nominees make it where they belong?”

The professor tapped a finger to his chin. “Well, if we think of this logically…”

I groaned. “The Silmaril Awards aren’t logical professor. People around the world nominate their favorite fantasy book characters, by commenting on various blog sites. Then magically, those characters show up at my house! This isn’t my house; the North Bend Airport isn’t my house! How will the others find their right place?”

“What about social media?” My husband shifted in the hospital bed, laying down his phone. “You could post there all the rules, or at least calls to action. Have people go to the blogs and nominate their favorite fantasy book characters, like Aslan.”

“Yes.” I paused, and then realized. “Aslan can’t be nominated. He’s already a winner for wisest couns… el… or.” I let out a breath. “How is Aslan going to fit into my house?”

The professor placed a gentle hand on my shoulder. “Remember, he comes and goes as he pleases. If need be, he’ll make it work.”

“Thanks.”

A knock at the door interrupted us. “Excuse me. Are you Mr. Wyatt? I’m here to take you downstairs.”

As they moved my husband’s IV around, I motioned to the Professor to join me on the couch out of the way. At least, I’d have someone with me during the surgery.

“Don’t turn around,” the professor whispered. “I think the instructions were just broadcast across the sky.”

Ignoring his instructions, I turned and saw:

Silmaril Awards Dates

September 7-11: Nominations for Silmaril Awards
September 13-17: Vote for Silmaril Awards
September 20-Oct 2: Silmaril Awards Presentations

Silmaril Awards Hosts

Most Devoted Couple – T P Sarah at Light and Shadows
Most Epic Heroine – C. O. Bonham
Most Faithful Friend – Mackenzie K. Writes
Most Nefarious Villain – Janelle Leanne Schmidt
Wisest Counselor – Kandi J Wyatt
Strangest Character – E. E. Rawls
Most Magnificent Dragon – Rachel A. Greco
Most Epic Hero – DJ Edwards
Silver Tongue – S. L. Dooley
Most Rakish Rogue – Grace T

Let the nominations begin!

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Coming Soon: 11th Annual Silmaril Awards https://kandijwyatt.com/coming-soon-11th-annual-silmaril-awards/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=coming-soon-11th-annual-silmaril-awards https://kandijwyatt.com/coming-soon-11th-annual-silmaril-awards/#respond Tue, 01 Sep 2026 18:39:56 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10952 Continue reading →]]> The Silmaril Awards are here! In celebration of Bilbo and Frodo’s birthdays, the awards are held in September. Tolkien and Lewis characters present the award at the end of the month. Someone said it’s like the Tony or Oscars, only it’s for Fantasy Characters from Books.

What are the Silmarils:

The Silmaril Awards are all about celebrating fantasy fiction. But whereas most awards go to authors or books, these awards go to the characters themselves!

Started in 2016, these awards are a four week online celebration of all that’s best in fantasy literature. There are several awards in various categories given every year. The characters who receive them have to be from books generally considered to be in the fantasy genre. And a given character cannot receive an award more than once. These are lifetime awards.

Also, as Tolkien is, for us, the gold standard of fantasy, his characters are not eligible to be nominated. That’s because they’ll be the ones presenting the awards in this cross-dimensional online ceremony. 

Nominations are submitted on the websites of each of the presenters for that year. Anyone can submit a nomination and you can second (and third and fourth, etc.) any number of nominations besides your own.

After the nomination period (lasting one week), the five characters receiving the most nominations will make it onto the ballot and you’ll have one week to vote. After the votes are tallied, the winners will be announced, one per day, over the final two weeks of the awards.

Who to look for

Since each year, the different bloggers host different categories, you’ll find last year’s Most Faithful Friend on my blog.

This year, I get to hang out with none other than all the wisest counselors! That means that Gandalf and who knows who else will be hanging out in my 1880’s old stagecoach home. Maybe we can pretend it’s a castle?

But how does it work? I’m glad you asked. Starting September 7, you’ll be leaving comments on my blogs as well as others to nominate your favorite characters.

Rules for nominations:

Characters must be fantasy characters from books. This means no sci-fi, no contemporary, AND no webcomics, graphic novels, movies, and so on. If the story was a book first, but then got its own webcomic, graphic novel, characters from said story are eligible, but otherwise, sadly, they are not permitted. If there’s a book which might be seen as sci-fi, contemporary, or something else non-fantasy but you think has enough fantasy elements to count (for instance, The Lunar Chronicles, for the sake of the Silmaril Awards, count as fantasy, though they are rather sci-fi-y), make your case in the comments, and we will certainly consider it. 

Tolkien’s and Lewis’s characters are not allowed. Given that, in the awards ceremony at the end of the month, one of Tolkien’s characters (and potentially a few of Lewis’s) will be presenting this award, you really don’t want the conflict of interest that might result from the presenting characters being nominated for the award. Especially if they don’t win the final vote. It can get ugly, y’all. 

An author may not nominate (or second) his or her own characters. It’s just undignified and unprofessional, guys. Don’t do it. However, you of course may send your hyped-up readers to nominate and/or second your characters. (Winning a Silmaril would be really good publicity, just saying.)

Rule-breakers are sent immediately over to Rachel A. Greco, who’s hosting the dragons this year, to be eaten. Look, I don’t make the rules, I just enforce them. If you don’t want to follow these rules, prepare to be a dragon’s lunch. And vice versa–if you don’t want to be a dragon’s lunch, prepare to follow the rules. 

Former Wise Counselor Winners

Silmarils are a one-time thing, so a character may only win a category once. Here are the characters who have already won this award:

-Helmer (The Green Ember)
-Queen Irene (Princess and the Goblin)
-Nia (The Wingfeather Saga)
-Merlin (Arthurian Legends)
-Puddleglum (The Chronicles of Narnia)
-Halt (Ranger’s Apprentice)
-Remus Lupin (Harry Potter)
-Professor Kirke (The Chronicles of Narnia)
-Professor Hamilton (Dragons in Our Midst)
-Aslan (The Chronicles of Narnia)


Well, I’d best get to cleaning. We have enough room in this place, but my guest will expect some cleanliness. Let’s see how well this year’s Silmaril Awards go. Who knows, I may meet a new friend, or get to spend time with an old one. Who do you want to see win?

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Creative After School Ideas to Boost Kids’ Confidence and Curiosity https://kandijwyatt.com/creative-after-school-ideas-to-boost-kids-confidence-and-curiosity/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=creative-after-school-ideas-to-boost-kids-confidence-and-curiosity https://kandijwyatt.com/creative-after-school-ideas-to-boost-kids-confidence-and-curiosity/#respond Mon, 24 Aug 2026 15:00:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10926 With school ramping up on the East Coast and coming up on the West Coast, here’s a guest post from blogger Katherine Williams.


Parents of school-age children often hit the same wall: the usual after-school activities fill time, but they don’t always spark creativity or fit a child’s changing interests. Between busy schedules, limited local options, and the pressure to “pick the right thing,” the parenting challenge becomes finding something that feels meaningful instead of just convenient. Many families want creative enrichment options that support children’s personal growth, build real confidence, and keep curiosity alive. The goal is simple, expanding children’s horizons.

Why Nontraditional Learning Builds Confidence

Nontraditional learning opportunities are activities that teach through doing, creating, and experimenting instead of following a set script. The heart of it is creative learning as an engaging and imaginative process, where kids get more say in how they learn and show what they know. That freedom often sparks new interests and strengthens real-world skills.

This matters because confidence grows when kids see themselves improve through practice, not just performance. It also widens their perspective by showing there is more than one “right” way to solve a problem. The fact that 48% of parents prefer a hybrid learning model reflects how many families value flexible paths.

Think of a child who hates worksheets but lights up in a stop-motion animation club. They plan, revise, ask questions, and share a final project they can proudly show. The same child often starts taking healthy risks in other areas, too. That mindset makes it easier to protect quality time with simple, shared routines that still feel meaningful.

Build a 15‑Minute After‑School Routine You Can Do Together

When kids get chances to explore and create, they grow, but they also need to feel your steady presence behind the scenes. One of the simplest ways to protect that connection during busy seasons is to pick an after-school activity you can do with your child, even if it’s just 15 minutes. The goal isn’t a big production; it’s consistency. When you have a small plan of attack, your child reliably gets quality time with you, and you don’t carry the same pressure to “make it up” later. That together-time can look a few different ways:

  • Join their activity in a small, doable way, sit down and participate alongside them rather than supervising from across the room.
  • Be available for bedtime every night when you can, so the day ends with connection.
  • Invite them into simple chores while you’re working in the kitchen, so being together doesn’t depend on having extra hours.
  • Plan a new experience together (something to look forward to), which builds closeness even before it happens.

If you need help thinking through busy-season priorities without adding more guilt to your plate, it can be reassuring to map out what matters most. Once you’ve protected that small daily “us” moment, it’s easier to choose from a wider menu of outside-the-box activities that fit your child’s age and interests.

Pick Outside-the-Box Activities (With Age-Friendly Examples)

A good after-school activity doesn’t have to be a big weekly commitment. If you already have a simple 15‑minute together routine, these options plug right in, try one in “tiny mode” first, then build only if your child asks for more.

  1. Run a “craft skill ladder,” not random crafts: Pick one craft learning goal for 2–3 weeks (cutting, stitching, weaving, origami folds) and repeat it with small upgrades. For younger kids, that might be cutting straight lines → zigzags → simple shapes; for older kids, sewing a button → repairing a tear → making a mini pouch. Keeping a “before/after” page in a notebook helps kids see progress, which boosts confidence.
  2. Make arts education feel like a mini studio, not a worksheet: Choose one artist “move” per week, shading, collage layering, perspective, or color mixing, and do a 15‑minute warm-up side by side. Then let your child make one “final piece” on the weekend using the same move. A helpful north star is that 63% of young people who engage in creative activities report increased confidence and reduced stress/anxiety.
  3. Try instrument lessons in a “micro-lesson” format at home: Instead of “practice for 30 minutes,” set a timer for 8–12 minutes and focus on one bite-size win: one riff, one chord change, or four clean measures. For ages 5–8, rhythm instruments or simple keyboard patterns work well; ages 9–12 can track a short practice streak and choose a “showcase song” every month. End by recording a 20‑second clip so they can hear improvement over time.
  4. Build language acquisition into daily life with a theme week: Pick one theme, snacks, sports, pets, feelings, and learn 8–12 useful words plus 2 short phrases. Use them during your existing 15‑minute routine (label items, act out verbs, play “I spy” in the target language). Older kids can add a weekly voice note or short comic strip using the theme words.
  5. Do a “kitchen STEM” experiment series with one variable at a time: Choose experiments you can repeat with small changes: paper airplanes (wing shape), slime (ratio), plants (light), or ice melt (salt/sugar/sand). Keep it simple: write a guess, change one thing, and note what happened. For teens, STEM programs can be especially worthwhile, one review found STEM education showed stronger cognitive outcomes in high school.
  6. Start kid-friendly entrepreneurship with a tiny, low-stakes project: Pick a one-week “mini business” that fits your family schedule: a bookmark-making table, a dog-walk flyer for neighbors you know, or a donation drive. Ideas like selling homemade crafts help kids practice pricing, presentation, and polite communication without needing big startup costs. Keep the goal small, earn enough for one shared treat or donate proceeds to a cause they choose.
  7. Create a rotating “choice board” so quitting turns into tweaking: Post 10 options (mix crafts, art, music, language, STEM, and entrepreneurship) and let your child pick 2 per week: one easy comfort choice, one stretch choice. If motivation dips, swap the format before you ditch the whole activity, shorter sessions, a different theme, or doing it together during your 15‑minute routine. These small experiments make it easier to balance costs, time, and follow-through without turning after school into a battle.

Common Questions Parents Ask About After-School Ideas

Q: What if I can’t tell which activity my child will actually like?
A: Start with a short “taste test” week and watch for energy, not perfection. The five core dimensions can guide you: do they enjoy it, want it often, prefer doing it alone or together, and like the setting? Let them choose the next tiny step.

Q: How do I balance activities with homework and downtime?
A: Pick a hard stop time and protect decompression first, even if that means only 10 minutes of an activity. It also helps to consider how they will affect the entire family so your schedule stays calm and predictable.

Q: Can I support my child’s interests without pushing too hard?
A: Aim for encouragement, not outcomes: notice effort, curiosity, and problem-solving. Offer two options and let them pick, then end on a “we’ll pause here” note before frustration spikes.

Q: How do we build consistency when motivation is all over the place?
A: Keep the same small time slot on most days so it becomes automatic. Track streaks with something simple like a calendar dot or one sentence about what they tried.

Q: What should I do when an activity melts down or they want to quit?
A: Treat it as feedback, not failure: reduce the difficulty, shorten the session, or switch materials. Ask one question, “What part felt too hard?” then help them make one change for next time.

Build Confidence Through One New After-School Choice This Week

It’s easy to feel stuck between wanting kids to try more and worrying about over-scheduling or choosing the “wrong” activity. A steadier path is a positive parenting outlook that treats after-school time as low-pressure experimentation, guided by empowering parental choices and honest check-ins. When that mindset leads, confidence in activity selection grows, and so does a child’s curiosity, independence, and other developmental benefits as their horizons expand. One new experience at a time is how confidence is built. Choose one small next step this week, sign up for a trial, visit a club, or simply ask which idea feels worth testing. Those small yeses build resilience and connection that carry well beyond the school year.


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Katherine Williams knows that one of the most difficult things about parenting is taking good care of yourself so you can take the best care of your children. She created When the Baby Sleeps to help parents prioritize self-care so they can be there for their kids. She knows that finding time for self-care as a parent never gets easier, but she hopes the advice and resources shared on her site will help her visitors be their best parenting selves.

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New Addition to Your Special Edition Books https://kandijwyatt.com/new-addition-to-your-special-edition-books/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=new-addition-to-your-special-edition-books https://kandijwyatt.com/new-addition-to-your-special-edition-books/#respond Sun, 23 Aug 2026 13:00:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10931 As I continue to write stories in Four Stars over Ardatz, I’m making a commitment to you to provide quality special edition hardbacks that you can enjoy for years to come. You never know when a series will become your ride or die favorite.

Founders

Two stories. 
Two books. 
Two families. 
Without courage neither will have a legacy to leave to the next generation. What heritage will you leave for your family?

Two stories:
What happens if you have dragons and an ice sea? What if a young man is out for revenge–against dragons?
What happens when a sliver of your moon comes careening toward the planet? What will it take for a family to survive?

Two books:
Things Passed Down
Things Left Behind

Two families:
Giorgi Ioseb’s son is the last of clan Kori. He’s determined to fulfill his papa’s dying wish.
Wendel Vogt’s dad handed him the family ring as the sliver of the moon had entered their planet’s atmosphere. With it comes a responsibility to the family and to stand for what Dad stood for.

Courage:
Giorgi will need courage to go against his very nature to achieve the revenge he longs for.
Wendel will need courage to face a world tilted off its axis.

The Special Editions

Since both stories take place at oposite ends of the planet, I’ve used that to influence the color choice. Things Passed Down will be blue to represent the cold north, while Things Left Behind is orange for the sun. Things Passed Down has snowflakes in silver foil. Things Left Behind has the watch Wendel’s dad gives him in gold foil. The silver and gold will continue with faux metalic sprayed edges.

img="Founders special edition hardback duology in Kandi J Wyatt's Four Stars over Ardatz epic fantasy world"

Inside will have special art for chapter headers. I’m still finalizing who and what that will look like.

How to Pre-order

Normally, to pre-order books, you go to retailers, pay them, wait until release day and then the ebook miraculously ends up on your device. I’ve started to change that up. Instead of the impersonal route of ebook only pre-order, I’ve started to use Kickstarter. This enables those who pre-order to receive the ebooks months before the book is available in stores and usually there’s something special about even the ebooks that don’t end up on regular stores.

Besides early special ebooks, this also enables special art to be commissioned. For Paskal’s Hope in Four Stars over Ardatz: Journeys duology, we have two character sketches added to the chapter art already in the paperback and hardback that won’t be available in retail stores.

Kickstarter enables the author and reader to connect through reader polls of what they want in the book, stretch goals, and direct messaging.

To sum up, Kickstarter is great because:

  • you receive ebooks ahead of others
  • you receive special edition ebooks
  • you receive special edition paperbacks or hardbacks (yes, both physical and ebook)
  • you get to vote in what makes the special edition ‘special’
  • you have direct access to the author
  • you get swag (either digital or physical)
  • you get both books of the duology at once if you wish instead of waiting (for this and future Kickstarters for me)

If that sounds like something you want to be a part of, then follow the Kickstarter to get an email notification when it launches (early September is the plan.)

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Bringing Assault into the Light to Provide Hope https://kandijwyatt.com/bringing-assault-into-the-light-to-provide-hope/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=bringing-assault-into-the-light-to-provide-hope https://kandijwyatt.com/bringing-assault-into-the-light-to-provide-hope/#respond Tue, 19 May 2026 15:15:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10731 img="Four Stars over Ardatz: Journeys by Kandi J Wyatt, epic fantasy with hope"

One of the tough topics that’s discussed in Four Stars over Ardatz: Journeys is sexual assault. This unfortunately is too often left undiscussed, especially among those who claim Christ. I think by taking a verse that says: “it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of [evildoers] in secret.” (Eph 5:12) We’ve given power to abusers and assailants. 

I know when I finally allowed my brain to unlock a sliver of a memory, I felt shame and guilt–not because it’d happened, but because I’d lied my whole life! Yet, by bringing it out into the open, by sitting with my mom and working through a secondary outcome, and by lots of prayer and Bible study, I was able to be freed of the shame and fear that assault had left in its wake.  

By having characters go through these horrific events (off the page) and walking through the healing process, I hope to bring about conversations, to provide a voice for those who feel as if they have no voice, and provide hope that there is a better outcome than what they’ve faced so far. 

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How do you help those who’ve faced this? Remember last week’s post about how to talk about tough topics? The same applies here. The main thing you can do is provide a loving, nonjudgmental ear for them to share when they feel ready. If you’re a partner to a survivor of abuse, realize that things that had been fine earlier may now not be alright. Be patient with them and show love without touch.

A book, and even movies, make the process seem easy and/or quick. But that is as far from the truth as possible. Even if the healing comes relatively quickly (over the course of a year or so), years later triggers can arise that give fear a hold again. 

By speaking about this tough topic, we can free survivors of the shame that accompanies sexual assault and abuse. We provide them freedom and lift a burden that is too heavy for them to carry alone. 

If you’re a survivor and have no one to talk to, feel free to reach out. If you know a survivor, feel free to share either Kristjan’s Rise or Paskal’s Hope with them as books that may help them see that there is hope. Good resources for healing are The Wounded Heart by Dan Allender and Lord, Heal My Hurts by Kay Arthur. If you have troubles finding any of these resources, reach out to me, I can help you find them.

Speaking about hard topics can leave us feeling heavy and weighed down, but remember the goal is to shine light in the midst of darkness. To turn our scars into weapons of light.

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Enter to Win: Hobbit Special Edition Giveaway https://kandijwyatt.com/enter-to-win-hobbit-special-edition-giveaway/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=enter-to-win-hobbit-special-edition-giveaway https://kandijwyatt.com/enter-to-win-hobbit-special-edition-giveaway/#respond Mon, 18 May 2026 18:09:59 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10736 I’m joining with four other authors to giveaway a special edition of The Hobbit. I can verify that this is one cool copy! I’ve not perused The Hobbit, but at both Pigeon Forge, TN for Teach Them Diligently and Cincinatti for Great Homeschool Convention, I saw The Lord of the Rings version of this that the Realm Makers Bookstore had for sale! Having both of these would be epic!

What’s the Hype?

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The book is a hardback with a velvet cover embossed in gold with a hole for the circle image to show through. The pages have gold foil printed and there’s a ribbon bookmark. Besides tat there’s a bunch of other fun Hobbit items that comes with it!

Who Else is Hosting it?

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Raymond Keith, Epic Fantasy Author of The Fires of Wynchell series.

Katherine Briggs, Epic Fantasy Author of The Threshold Duology

I highly recommend both The Eternity Gate and The Immortal Abyss. I kicked myself for waiting to read them, and then ended up with the hardcovers after reading the e-books. Well worth reading!

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Tirzah Rae, Fantasy Author

Her debut novel will be live on Kickstarter hopefully this week.

Hope Ann, Dystopian Author of Unbanded

This book is on my shelf waiting to be read. I don’t know if I’ll get to it before Realm Makers or if it’ll be my on the plane read.

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How to Enter

Use the button and follow the instructions. You can get extra entries by following all the different authors as well.

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8 Ways to Tackle Hard Issues with Grace https://kandijwyatt.com/8-ways-to-tackle-hard-issues-with-grace/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=8-ways-to-tackle-hard-issues-with-grace https://kandijwyatt.com/8-ways-to-tackle-hard-issues-with-grace/#respond Tue, 12 May 2026 16:16:59 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10721 Dealing with tough topics is something that is often skirted in this time of easily hurt ‘feelings’ and divided people. Yet, there’s never been a time where it’s more necessary for Hopebringers to speak the truth about things that others avoid.

But the real issue is how to go about it and still have friends at the end. It’s a matter of either holding our tongue and then creating a false sense that life is ‘normal’ without problems or speaking and creating a haven where people feel comfortable around you. 

There are eight pointers for speaking out on hard topics.

Don’t Glorify It

If we focus on the issue and make it seem as if it’s the good, then we’ve not done anyone any favors. It’s what makes much of modern fantasy dark.

Don’t Pull the Problem Out of Perspective

Perspective matters. If you focus on the problem then there can be no hope left. Instead, acknowledge the issue but then show the way through. When we make the problem the focus, then we forget a way out.

Show Hope

This is very similar to #2. Shine the light! There is a way out.

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Focus on the People Not the Problem

I’d say this is what Rebecca P. Minor did in her newest book, The Rending Cauldron. The characters were the main focus not their terrible situations that they were in (slavery, sexual assault.) So, when you’re talking about tough issues, remember there are real people going through it. Love them!

Love Those Who’ve Been There

When we talk about tough issues, there are people who’ve been there. Honor their struggle by loving them and not minimizing their experiences. 

Don’t Forget There Are Consequences

This often gets overlooked. We say you can just move forward, but there are consequences for what happens. Those who’ve been through trauma will have to live with that memory. Those who’ve walked a hard path due to their own decisions will need to heal and then still have consequences.

This is where we come in as Hopebringers. We walk with them through life together with whatever those consequences may be. Let them know they deserve a “Happily Ever After” even if there are daily reminders of what has happened.

Talk About the Issues

As I started with, it’s easy to remain silent. But when we start talking about death, suicide, human trafficking, abuse, assault, and many more, we allow others to acknowledge that they’ve been there. It helps them not feel alone. (Remember the “Me, too” movement?)

The same reviewer that said Kristjan’s Rise is more than a book, also said that it reminded her of a time in her life when she’d gone through something similar.

Don’t Gloss Over It

And lastly, don’t gloss over the issues. This is what was done when I was growing up. By not speaking of things, it made them taboo. But glossing over them does the same. It minimizes what someone has experienced.


May you have the courage to speak up about things others avoid. May you shine love, light, and hope into people’s lives this week.

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The Greatest Hope Bringer Ever https://kandijwyatt.com/the-greatest-hope-bringer-ever/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-greatest-hope-bringer-ever https://kandijwyatt.com/the-greatest-hope-bringer-ever/#respond Sun, 05 Apr 2026 21:04:12 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10685 There’s something about getting up while it’s still dark out and driving up the mountain into the sunrise that gets me thinking about those first century women. But this year, I began thinking about it last night. About hope.

Those women weren’t looking for hope. They were practical, going to put spices on the body for burial, but what they found was the greatest hope ever.

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Now when I say hope, I’m not talking about the “I hope it won’t rain” type of hope. No, this is a hope that’s based in promises kept. A hope founded in faith—the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.

~Hebrews 11:1 (ESV)

But how does Resurrection Sunday (or Easter) give us the greatest hope bringer?

Let’s back up three days. You see, those women I told you about in the beginning watched as the teacher they’d hoped was the chosen one was crucified—the Roman form of execution of a criminal. All their hopes came crashing to a halt as he died and was placed in a tomb.

Think about it. The best fantasy story ever—the chosen one wandering the country, feeding the multitudes, healing people, and even raising others from the dead. Then, everything comes skidding to a halt. Instead of the chosen one being placed on the throne, he’s treated as a criminal—and his followers are positive that they’re next!

They went into hiding, but the women still thought they’d give him a decent burial, and maybe even bury their dreams with him. Instead, they found the grave empty.

Mary came out of the tomb in tears, running into a man that she assumed was the gardener. Her plea pulls at the heart.

“Sir, if you tell me where you put him, I’ll take him.”

Can you hear the pain in that request? My loved one is dead, but now I don’t even have a grave to mourn at. Everything’s been taken from me. Let me find him, then I can mourn in peace.

The reply is just as poignant. I can hear it in the tone of a parent or a grandparent who kneels down to the level of a child, opening their arms and saying, “Oh, honey.” All Jesus does is call her by name.

Sorrow to Joy

What had been “sorrow upon sorrow” or “grief upon grief” as the Apostle Paul says, turned into a hope that would sustain believers through the centuries. A hope that turned even death backwards.

She would have known that when a willing victim who had committed no treachery was killed in a traitor’s stead, the Table would crack and Death itself would start working backward.

~The LIon, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C. S. Lewis

You see, the great and loving King of All gave his people a choice to do what he knew was best for them, but his people said, “We know what’s best.” In that moment, there was a great divide between the King and his people. He allowed them to go their own way, to spurn him. The consequences were severe—death, separation. Not just separation for a moment or a year or two, but eternal separation.

The consequences of going our own way

Death. From that moment on, all of creation groaned under that weight. There was no going back. As his people age, they feel the pull in their bones, in every ache and pain. Every funeral is a reminder that death is coming, a reminder that his people no longer can live forever.

And yet, the King didn’t leave them to wander on their own. He made a plan—a plan that was in place from “before the foundation of the earth.” The King sent his Son to take the punishment of his people upon himself.

So, yes, The Chosen One walked among his people and then died in their place. Most fantasy stories end there, but the Greatest Story of All doesn’t. This is how we have the greatest hope bringer of all.

The Chosen One rose again. Physically, corporally. He said, “See my hands. Touch my wounds. It is I.” And by rising again, he did away with the sting of death. No more will death have the final word.

And so, on this Resurrection Sunday, may we proclaim hope. May we seek to know the greatest hope bringer, and may our faith be assured.

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Cover Reveal for New Epic Fantasy https://kandijwyatt.com/cover-reveal-for-new-epic-fantasy/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=cover-reveal-for-new-epic-fantasy https://kandijwyatt.com/cover-reveal-for-new-epic-fantasy/#respond Thu, 05 Mar 2026 20:10:12 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10676 Kristjan’s Rise was the first of the epic fantasy duology Four Stars over Ardatz: Journeys that follows two different young men, and the women who love them, as they try to find their place in the world and discover where their worth lies. Now it’s time for book two.

Epic Fantasy with Magic

All he wanted was to prove himself a man.

All she wanted was to learn to use her new-found magic.

Neither of them knew the price of their desires.

A rope bound his feet together, and another held his arms at his sides. Each of his fellow captives was secured in the same way. His arms itched where the hemp fibers dug into them. He wiggled trying to reposition, to somehow scratch it.

The slave beside him gave a warning shake of his head. Slave. He’d been taken captive—by a jiddee’adar slaver. Weren’t the jiddee’adar supposed to be Jeeah’s protectors—advisors to kings or chieftains, using their abilities to serve? He shook his head. He’d seen how Olechario used his power.

Fantasy that Questions Your Core Beliefs

What if being who you were meant to be, meant you’d be trafficked, sent half-way around the world, and sold into slavery? Would you be able to see meaning from the despair? Or would you be like Paskal?

As the young girl came to a stop, her eyes widened, and she walked toward Paskal, her hand extended. “You’re a slave?” She reached for his hand and pulled him down to her, then traced the mark on his arm.

He wanted to hide, to have the ground open up and swallow him. Instead of the hatred and disdain that he’d grown accustomed to, though, she placed both hands on his cheeks and turned him to her.

“Jeeah loves you.”

The words struck him harder than the physical blow he’d expected. What did she mean? Of course, he knew about Jeeah, but since he’d woken in Olechario’s care, his faith that the god was good had dwindled. How could Jeeah allow him to be treated like he had?

Like a good slave, he didn’t reply. There was nothing he could say anyway.

Fantasy that Brings Hope from Loss

Paskal only wants to prove himself a man, but when he’s captured by an evil mage and sold down the Inferno Trail, he loses more than he ever thought possible. And yet, through the fire and pain he finds hope.

What would you do if faced with immeasurable loss?

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Cover for Paskal’s Hope

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Where to Get Paskal’s Hope

Instead of a pre-order on Amazon or other outlets, Paskal’s Hope is being released as a Kickstarter project. It’s currently in pre-launch which means you follow it to get notifications of when it goes live. The more people who follow it, the more Kickstarter promotes it.

Kickstarter is a crowdfunding option that allows you–the reader–to get early access to special edition books. Paskal’s Hope will have four different chapter headers that will correspond to his place in the story. The hardcover outside will match Kristjan’s Rise so the duology will look great on your bookshelf.

If you haven’t already purchased Kristjan’s Rise, you’ll have the opportunity in the Kickstarter to get both books.

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