Kandi J Wyatt – Author Kandi J Wyatt https://kandijwyatt.com Mother of Dragons Mon, 05 Oct 2026 16:09:09 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.3 https://i0.wp.com/kandijwyatt.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/cropped-cropped-kandy_wyatt-logo-2.png?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 Kandi J Wyatt – Author Kandi J Wyatt https://kandijwyatt.com 32 32 111918409 Christians and Fantasy: a Match Made in Heaven https://kandijwyatt.com/christians-and-fantasy-a-match-made-in-heaven/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=christians-and-fantasy-a-match-made-in-heaven https://kandijwyatt.com/christians-and-fantasy-a-match-made-in-heaven/#respond Mon, 19 Oct 2026 13:00:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=11003 As we’ve looked at why Christians should read fantasy, we’ve discovered there are specific tropes and genres that call to our hearts’ longing for the real. This week’s post is no different.

5. Sacrifice

The turning point of many fantasy books is when the hero gives of their self for the cause. It might be to help the main character push through to the end or it might be to bring about an even better ending than there otherwise would be.

Brom.

Dumbledore.

Gandalf.

Aslan.

Some of these sacrifices deliberately point to Christ’s sacrifice on the cross. Others are more ambiguous. Tolkien himself said that Gandalf’s death and resurrection wasn’t intended to be symbolism, but when you look closely at it, there’s no denying Tolkien’s worldview showed through.

This foundational aspect of fantasy can’t but help point people to the ultimate sacrifice that Christ made for us. Again, a heart longing for fulfillment of a story element in real life.

6. Prophecy

Along with the chosen one, there is usually some kind of prophecy that guides the main characters through their fantasy story. Whether it’s a designation of the chosen one or a statement that helps the main characters unearth their quest objective, some form of prophecy exists in most fantasy stories.

How does this relate to Christianity and real life? It’s easy to see the correlation with the Bible. A book, written years in the past, guides our lives today. Or there are the literal prophecies that were given and then later came to pass—like in the book of Daniel.

Again, here’s an opportunity for believers to share their faith through fantasy stories.

7. Orphan

Eragon

The Elfstones of Shannara

The Horse and His Boy

Uprooted (Okay, I didn’t honestly plan on being part of such an ostentatious list, but it’s true.)

All of these have main characters who are orphans, or who become orphans thus setting them on their quest.

Christians may wonder how I’m placing this within roots of their faith, but we are all orphans.

The earliest vision their eyes beheld was not one another. Upon humanity’s awakening, they first saw the glad smile of God. ~Cara L. T. Murphy, The Inquisitive Christ

Back in Eden, we had family. God was our Father, but due to the fall, from the time of our birth until we die, we are now orphans—unless we look to Christ. Then he adopts us into His family. The Apostle Paul talks about us being adopted and crying out “Abba, Father.”

Adoption probably should go under found family, but it’s the idea that we had no family and now we are adopted into a family. Many fantasy heroes have a longing for connection with their lost parents or mentors.


And so we have the next three reasons Christians should read fantasy. As we delve into the genre, we find there are aspects that drive our hearts’ longing. May you fulfill your true purpose this week.

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2 More Reasons Why Christians Should Read Fantasy https://kandijwyatt.com/2-more-reasons-why-christians-should-read-fantasy/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=2-more-reasons-why-christians-should-read-fantasy https://kandijwyatt.com/2-more-reasons-why-christians-should-read-fantasy/#respond Mon, 12 Oct 2026 13:00:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10999 We started the series on how fantasy links to the real world, and then discussed how found family and kingdom fantasy harken to our longing for something beyond this world. Next up are two more reasons–one a little more controversial.

3. The Chosen One

Every fantasy lover knows this trope. The lowly stable boy, the orphan girl, the underdog who no one knows becomes the prophesied savior. I don’t know how many fantasy stories include this in some way. And yet, what if it had its beginnings at the beginning of time?

Genesis chapter three tells of the fall of man, but God doesn’t just punish Adam and Eve for doing what they weren’t supposed to do, he gives a promise! One day, there will come one who will crush the serpent’s head. A Savior would come from the woman.

How many women through the ages wondered if their child would be the chosen one? How many young boys dreamed of being the savior their people longed for?

Then one day, an angel spoke to a young woman betrothed to a righteous man and told her she would bear a child who would be the Savior.

But the chosen one trope doesn’t end with Jesus as the Savior of the world. It goes on. Jesus chose twelve men to travel with him, and many others followed.

Ephesians chapter one verses three and four state:

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love (English Standard Version, emphasis mine)

Did you catch that? If we are believers in Christ, then we are chosen. The longing of every fantasy reader to be that chosen hero can be true.

4. Magic

I can just hear Christians ready to cry, “Heresy!” Doesn’t the Bible forbid magic? Put down your stones—okay, at least hold them for a moment and listen.

Magic by its very definition is a supernatural ability. There are two sources to supernatural abilities in this world—from God or from the Devil (Enemy, Satan.)

God gave his Old Testament servants the ability to perform miracles which would very much appear as magic. Moses turning his staff into a snake for instance. The Egyptian magicians did the same thing through their dark arts. There were several signs that Moses did that the Egyptians were able to duplicate, but eventually, they could no longer keep up with God’s power.

In the New Testament, again, God gave signs to help people come to a saving faith in Jesus.

But there is a definite dark magic that the Bible forbids and with good reason. Its source is from the enemy, and he only wants to entangle us in his grasp.

So, as believers we must be careful where our magic system comes from in a fantasy book. There are definite dark fantasy books out there that dig into magic on an evil front.


As you go about your week, remember the chosen one. Are you one of them? Do you know any? But even more importantly, are you living life as a chosen one?

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Two Reasons Christians Should Read Fantasy https://kandijwyatt.com/two-reasons-christians-should-read-fantasy/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=two-reasons-christians-should-read-fantasy https://kandijwyatt.com/two-reasons-christians-should-read-fantasy/#respond Mon, 05 Oct 2026 16:30:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10997 As we continue the series on how fantasy blends with the real world, let’s look at why Christians in particular shouldn’t turn down fantasy.

Should Christians read fantasy? I grew up in a family that answered this in the negative. It wasn’t until I was in college that I read Tolkien’s Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit. Let alone C. S. Lewis’s Chronicles of Narnia. But as I grow in my faith and dig deeper into fantasy, the more I see that fantasy is an outworking of the longing of the heart for God.

How? Here’s ten themes within the fantasy genre that harken back to the roots of Christianity. We’ll look at 2 at a time.

1. Found Family

The number of stories in fantasy that have found family as a theme are beyond my counting. Even The Lord of the Rings have the hobbits coming together as a family, not to mention Gimli and Legolas.

But where is found family in Christianity?

Back in the Garden of Eden, God placed Adam and Eve and told them to multiply and fill the earth—in essence, become a family. Unfortunately, it didn’t take them long to break the perfect world God had created, including the family. Cain killed Abel!

When Jesus came to earth, he created the church. Paul uses the image of family for the church. Could it be that the church in its perfect form is to be one big found family?

2. Kingdom Fantasy

One of the subgenres of fantasy is Kingdom Fantasy where there isn’t any magic, just a medieval kingdom; while another trope of fantasy is to have it in a medieval setting.

Many who read fantasy wish to return to the medieval era. Why else would we have Renaissance Faires and the SCA? But what is the draw to this kingdom setting?

Especially in the United States of America, I believe the draw is to the monarchy. Even though our forefathers separated from it, we still are drawn to the idea of a king, queen, prince, and princess—hence the fascination with the British royal family.

The overarching concept of a monarch is that they have supreme control over the kingdom. There’s a bowing down in honor to them; a feeling of awe and reverence.

Wayne Thomas Batson does this well in his The Door Within series where the throne room is held in awe, and Aidan can’t even look at it in passing if the door is open.

Just as Gwenne covered Aidan’s eyes with her hands, a thunderous rumble sounded. The King’s enormous doors began to open. The entire hallway filled with searing light. The fierce brilliance streamed in through Gwenne’s fingers.

Aidan fell facedown, burying his head in his hands. Gwenne bent down to his side as the King’s chamber doors closed and the light withdrew.

“I warned you,” she said sympathetically. “Are you all right?”

“My eyes!” he complained, rubbing both vigorously with his knuckles. He blinked tears and opened his eyes. The only image he could see, eyes opened or eyes closed, was the vague outline of Gwenne’s fingers.

“The glory of the King… it is perilously pure,” she said.

Every believer knows that Jesus is given the name King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Could the fascination with fantasy kings be our desire to understand our own King?

Even better, could reading a fantasy book like The Door Within or others help bring a ‘welcome awakening’ to someone who is longing for a loving king who controls everything?


We’ll look at another 2 reasons next week.

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How Does Fantasy Mirror the Real World? https://kandijwyatt.com/how-does-fantasy-mirror-the-real-world/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-does-fantasy-mirror-the-real-world https://kandijwyatt.com/how-does-fantasy-mirror-the-real-world/#respond Mon, 28 Sep 2026 13:00:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10994 This series of posts have been a while in coming. I think it was last year that I finally sat down and wrote a document lining out how fantasy mirrors the real world.

But it’s more than mirroring our world, it’s more so our innate longing for what once was. And so there are ten ways fantasy reflects what our hearts long for. Because of this, I also describe them as ten reasons why Christians should read fantasy.

I know, that can be controversial. But I’ll line out those reasons later. Meanwhile, I posted the question of how fantasy mirrors the real world.

Genres that Mirror the Real World

As I look at fantasy genres, there’s at least one that mirrors our longing for another world. C. S. Lewis and many others, including me, write Portal Fantasy.

Portal fantasy is where the characters go from our world into a fantasy world. But how does this mirror our longing? Listen as this facebook creator explains Aslan.

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1597524445335860

Did you hear what he said? Find me in your world. Portal fantasy is a longing for the world we were originally created for. A world that can be ours again at the end.

The Door Within by Wayne Thomas Batson not only is portal fantasy, but shows the ending of what could be–adventures with God, not sitting on clouds playing harps.

Characters that Mirror our Longing

The hero is a longing for something more as well. Think about it. We want someone to come in and rescue us!

I once heard a speaker describe it as “Bog Theology.” It’s the time in your life when you’re in the middle of a bog–think mile long and wide where you’re sinking into it. Kind of like the Fire Swamp in The Princess Bride. There are dangers and you’re sinking wanting out.

Bog Theology says that instead of God sending you a helicopter to get you out, he comes alongside you and walks with you through it.

How many fantasy heroes do that. We walk with them through their journey, but in so doing, they walk beside us, helping us through our real-life struggles.


If this sounds like something you want to know more about, follow the series. Next up will be a series of posts with two reasons each of why Christians should read fantasy. It’s the same idea. This longing for a place to call your own that resonates within us with fantasy.

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2026 Wisest Counselor Silmaril Awards Ceremony https://kandijwyatt.com/2026-wisest-counselor-silmaril-awards-ceremony/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=2026-wisest-counselor-silmaril-awards-ceremony https://kandijwyatt.com/2026-wisest-counselor-silmaril-awards-ceremony/#respond Mon, 21 Sep 2026 13:01:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10989 I came downstairs and gaped. The ‘game room’ was completely changed. The large bay windows were open to allow in the diffuse cloudy light, and rows of chairs were set out with people filling most of them. A few guests still stood and conversed with their neighbors.

The Wrinkle in Time sisters were prominently seated up front with Meg and Wallace Charles beside them. They’d been a help when our water had been turned off for over twelve hours this week. Whereas Brom and Dalmir had walked to the creek and hauled water to various houses.

Gandalf came around the corner. “We’re all set, Kandi. You’re sure I can’t light fireworks to celebrate our newest award member?”

“No!” I realized it came out too harsh when those in the back row turned to look at us. “No,” I repeated quieter.

“Very well, then.” He grimaced, but the twinkle in his eye told me he hadn’t completely set the idea aside.

I strode toward the windows, nodding to Alden and then gaping as a man with white hair and a long beard took a seat.

“Dumbledore?”

He nodded a greeting.

When had he arrived? Beside him sat a prim rabbit who was knitting. Mentally shaking my head, I continued to the front, making sure to not worry about where people would stay after the party. At least most of them were accustomed to camping out. I had a large yard they could use.

Once at the front, I cleared my throat. “Please, take your seats. We are about to begin.”

There was the rustling of people adjusting and the scraping of chairs along the wood floor. Trying not to be nervous, I glanced about. The room was filled with characters from books I’d read and some I’d not even heard of! I knew my to-be-read list was going to grow by leaps and bounds.

With only the noise of traffic to interrupt me, I opened the ceremony. “Welcome to the 2026 Silmaril Awards for Wisest Counselor.”

Meg squirmed in the front seat, and Mrs. Who (or was it Which) patted her on the knee.

I raised my hand to Gandalf and took my seat in the front row beside my husband. Gandalf seemed to glide to the front, his long beard ruffling to the side. At least his wizard’s hat didn’t hit the ceiling. With a gleam in his eye, he turned to the gathering.

“As our esteemed hostest has said, we are here to honor the Wisest Counselor in all of fantasy literature. This year, as always, the votes are close and by even being nominated, you have risen to the top of the best. But know, whether you are here as a guest or nominee, by virtue of your place in your story, you are important to those in your party. No hero ever made it to the end without the help of their counselor. Never forget that.”

He allowed the silence to drag on, and in that space, a motorcycle zoomed by, its engine reving. A chuckle rose to counter it. Gandalf pulled out a scroll.

“In fifth place…” He cleared his throat. “Athelas from The City Between.”

Polite applause filled the room. Although I hadn’t known Athelas for long, I was sorry he hadn’t won. But that might have been due to his love for my Langlois Fog tea.

When he had taken his seat, Gandalf squinted and read, “In fourth place is Dalmir from The Turrim Archive.”

My heart sank as I applauded and hooted. I’d so wanted Dalmir to win. After all he’d gone through with Grayden and the others, he deserved a silmaril.

“In third place…” Gandalf cocked his head and then nodded. “Ah, yes, The Magus from The Queen’s Thief.”

He’d been the one who’d suggested where we could find tea in my own backyard. I’d been grateful for his suggestions. I was sorry to see he hadn’t placed higher, but that left two favorites for the top contenders.

Gandalf glanced about the room, allowing silence to fall before he said, “In second place is Rendar from Moonscript.”

Loud cheering erupted, and I almost jumped to my feet.

My husband placed a hand on me. “Easy, Kandi. We can’t show favorites.”

But I couldn’t help it. After all, when the kids were younger, we’d had ferrets named Durza and Arya, and when my last series had come out, I’d sent Christopher Paolini a proof copy to ask for an endorsement. Instead, I received a nice letter saying he was working on a project–a project that ended up neck and neck in amazon ratings with my series as it released.

Gandalf raised his hands. “And as you have surmised, the winner of Wisest Counselor for 2026 is Brom from The Inheritance Cycle.”

This time, the cheering was so loud, I hid an ear in my shoulder. It didn’t really help.

Brom made his way to the front. As he arrived, a host of sparkles floated down on him. I looked to Gandalf and he winked at me. It wasn’t fireworks, but it worked for what we needed.

img="wisest counselor 2026 Silmaril award"

As Gandalf settled the Silmaril on Brom, I snapped a photo to send to my oldest son who still had a copy of The Inheritance Cycle sitting on his bookshelf.

“I am told, there is a feast prepared outside for all to enjoy,” Gandalf said. “And until next year’s Silmaril Awards, may you share wisdom wherever you go.”

Don’t miss the rest of the awards

Most Devoted Couple – T P Sarah at Light and Shadows
Most Epic Heroine – C. O. Bonham
Most Faithful Friend – Mackenzie K. Writes
Most Nefarious Villain – Janelle Leanne Schmidt
Strangest Character – E. E. Rawls
Most Magnificent Dragon – Rachel A. Greco
Most Epic Hero – DJ Edwards
Silver Tongue – S. L. Dooley
Most Rakish Rogue – Grace T

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Newest Kickstarter is Now Live https://kandijwyatt.com/newest-kickstarter-is-now-live/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=newest-kickstarter-is-now-live https://kandijwyatt.com/newest-kickstarter-is-now-live/#respond Tue, 15 Sep 2026 17:15:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10982 Blue – Orange
Hot – Cold
Dragons – Apocalypse

Which would you choose? Oh, wait! You don’t have to choose between the two, you can have both. But how? Read on.

Kickstarter

Kickstarter is a platform where readers can help authors create a project that both are proud of. My prettiest books came from Kickstarters that I backed.

How does it work? An author (or other creative/business person) sets up a project with different tiers or levels of involvement. Each tier has different products. Say ebooks, audiobooks, paperbacks, hardbacks, etc. You choose your budget (I wish I had more budget this month) or what you want.

The author sets a funding goal. Once the funding goal is met, then the project will come to you at whatever tier you selected. But that’s not it. The fun begins after meeting the goal. That’s when stretch goals come into play. It was stretch goals that allowed Well of Souls by Z. R. McCormick to have two more pieces of artwork, a vellum insert, city map, short story, endpages, and sprayed edges! It was stretch goals that allowed the boxed set of Dragon Courage to have colored chapter headers, 2 sets of art cards, a 3-D printed dragon, and more.

The Books

Things Passed Down

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Set in the frozen dark north, Gamar City and Port Gamar lie upon a frozen sea. With dragon riders who control the city and dragons who keep the sea frozen, this area has created my most politically diverse land. Think Palestine in the first century with Roman overlords. A later book set in the same place ended up with my first ‘battle’ that wasn’t fought with swords or dragons but words!

Things Left Behind

img="Tropes of Things Left Behind by Kandi J Wyatt"

At the oposite extreme we have Ostland. Wendel and his brother Winston enjoy their time gaming or building robots, but when they learn that a sliver of the moon Pikku is careeming toward their planet, they use their skills to help form their new world.

Special Editions

These are Bespoke editions with chapter headers hand-drawn by artist Hannah Muldrey. Gold and silver foil on the dust jackets and the case-laminate spines, as well as colored endpages.

img="Mock up of special edition Things Left Behind by Kandi J Wyatt"

How to get yours

You can nab your early ebooks, special edition paperbacks, or Bespoke special edition hardbacks at the Kickstarter.

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Top 5 Wisest Counselors: Silmaril Awards 2026 https://kandijwyatt.com/top-5-wisest-counselors-silmaril-awards-2026/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=top-5-wisest-counselors-silmaril-awards-2026 https://kandijwyatt.com/top-5-wisest-counselors-silmaril-awards-2026/#respond Mon, 14 Sep 2026 04:23:20 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10979 I stood in my kitchen wondering what to do. My daughter had just notified us that the girls, our two granddaughters, were going to be in the Cranberry Festival Parade. Since their new aunt was on the court, I knew it’d be fun to see the parade and explore the vendor booths, but… I had a houseful of guests.

The previous week

Last week this time, we arrived home late. We’d been in the hospital for my husband’s urgent (not emergent) gallbladder surgery. While there we’d managed to pick up Professor Kirke, and then somehow ended up with enough room in the Prius to bring him back as well as a Costco run (which included my husband’s pain killers.) When we arrived, a man who looked much like my husband greeted us, helping bring in supplies. As he set down a box, I saw a mark on his hand. He quickly hid it, but I cocked my head.

“Brom?”

“At your service.” He turned to see my husband carrying the other box. “Let me get that for you.”

“I’ve got it,” my husband said as he set it on the island.

I shook my head this was going to be a long week.


At least my guests allowed us to sleep in, but by Sundy afternoon I came downstairs to find a man standing, looking slightly lost.

img="Rendar from Moonscript by H. S. J. Williams"

“Can I help you?” I asked.

“Is this where wisest counselors are gathering? I’m accustomed to inter-worlds travel, but this is a first for me.”

I chuckled. “You and me both. Welcome. I’m Kandi, your hostess. Care for a cup of…” I paused remembering I hadn’t ordered any more loose-leaf tea yet. “Coffee?”

“I… I’m not sure. I suppose I could try it.”

With something to do, I continued to make my newest guest feel at home.


Monday afternoon, three women escorted my husband in from the garage.

“I told you I could do it.” The woman adjusted her pink stole which was knotted around an overcoat; she was definitely overdressed for the warm September day.

“I never doubted you,” a plump woman with thick spectacles said.

The third ignored the other two and patted my husband’s arm. “I do believe he overdid it. We arrived just in time.”

“What were you doing now?” I asked my husband.

He shrugged, looking quite tired. “Only grinding shearing tool.”

I shook my head. “If you take him upstairs, he can show you to your rooms. And thank you, Mrs. Which. Or are you Mrs. Who?”

The three just smiled as my husband led them upstairs.


My home, although spacious, was starting to feel crowded. Gandalf, the two professors, and Brom had the third floor, and the three sisters now occupied the room across from mine. We couldn’t take many more guests.

Tuesday, went smoothly. As we walked the block to the photography studio, I was impressed with how well my husband could keep up. His healing was coming along. Before we made it the block to the studio, a man in a threadbare cloak approached us. Since we’d been known to wander the area in our own medieval garb, this didn’t surprise us. But it was his piercing blue eyes and long white beard that caught my attention.

“Is that a broadsword?” my husband asked the man, who glanced down.

“This?” He placed a hand on the hilt.

“Uh, yeah?”

The man shrugged and nodded. “Obviously, the world is not as I thought.”

I couldn’t hide a smirk.

“Yes, young lady?” The man glared at me with eyes full of knowledge and wisdom.

“Excuse me,” I said with a slight inclination of my head. “You may be another one of my guests. Are you purchance Dalmir of Turrim?”

A wary look crossed his aged face.

“It’s all right,” I soothed. “You’ve been called for the Silmaril Awards, and I’m your hostest. We’ll take you to our home.”

He muttered something into his beard, and I couldn’t help lean over and whisper, “Can I see the orb? It’s perfectly safe here.”

“Nothing is perfectly safe,” he grumbled, and I let it be.


By Friday, all was well. My guests were settling in, but I’d still not refreshed my tea stock. When Rendar refused coffee, but wished something hot to drink, I was at a loss.

There was a knock on the door.

“Good day, kind lady,” the gentleman said. “I hear you need tea. I may be of assistance. Let’s take a walk through your garden. There may be plants you need.”

“Why…” I don’t know why it threw me for a loop, but I finally found my voice. “Thank you. And you are?”

With a bow and a flourish, he said, “I am known as The Magus.”

Saturday’s happenings

Our walk wasn’t as successful as my tea-drinking guests would’ve wanted. There was a limited supply of spearmint and plantain leaves, but that was it. That evening, my final guest arrived. He’d have to share a room with The Magus, for I had no more beds available. But he, too, was a tea drinker.

As I stood in my kitchen wondering if I should leave my guests to their own devices while I went into town for the parade, my final guest, joined me, his hands wrapped around a mug. He hadn’t done anything but sip at what little tea I had, his eyes gazing into my soul as if he knew exactly what I was thinking.

Yet the more I watched him, the more I feared. Of all my guests, he seemed to be the one who would know a hundred ways to kill a person–and had discussed them at length with my husband over a mug of tea. Despite the fact that I believed he could kill me faster than a blink, I was still drawn to him like that cool uncle that everyone doesn’t understand but wants to be around.

It was at that moment that I realized what I needed to do.

“I’ll be right back!” I ran upstairs, grabbed my purse and returned. Athelas hadn’t moved, still holding his mug of tea. “I’ll go into town and bring back tea from Teas, Tinctures, and Tonics. Then you’ll have a good cup of tea.”

“Thank you,” he said with nod and turned back into the living room where Gandalf was discussing The Disaster of the Gladden Fields with the professors. “Why would you expend such a force of men when a single assassin would work?”

“You know nothing of orcs, sir,” Gandalf’s voice rose, and I second guessed myself.

Before I could chicken out, my husband joined me. I prayed our house would be left standing, and all our guests in one piece and unharmed when we returned.

Wisest Counselor 2026

Brom (Inheritance Cycle)
Athelas (The City Between)
Rendar (Moonscript)
The Magus (The Queen’s Thief)
Dalmir (The Turrim Archive)

Other Categories

Most Devoted Couple – T P Sarah at Light and Shadows
Most Epic Heroine – C. O. Bonham
Most Faithful Friend – Mackenzie K. Writes
Most Nefarious Villain – Janelle Leanne Schmidt
Strangest Character – E. E. Rawls
Most Magnificent Dragon – Rachel A. Greco
Most Epic Hero – DJ Edwards
Silver Tongue – S. L. Dooley
Most Rakish Rogue – Grace T

Where to Vote

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Wisest Counselor Nominations for 11th Annual Silmaril Awards https://kandijwyatt.com/wisest-counselor-nominations-for-11th-annual-silmaril-awards/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=wisest-counselor-nominations-for-11th-annual-silmaril-awards https://kandijwyatt.com/wisest-counselor-nominations-for-11th-annual-silmaril-awards/#comments Mon, 07 Sep 2026 12:58:00 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10963 I was anxiously gazing out the window, my attention torn between my husband’s gallbladder issues and the guests that would be showing up at my home four hours away. I’d left Gandalf in charge, and I wasn’t too sure if he was going to entertain our neighbors with his fireworks–and possibly get the sheriffs office called since fireworks are illegal in Oregon right now.

A bird flew past–a big bird. Blinking I tried to see where it went, calling to my husband, but he was stuck in the bed with a limited view out the window. Even with my own mobility I couldn’t see where it’d gone or what it’d been. Maybe just my imagination. I was slightly stressed with everything going on.

As I turned back to my husband, there was a tapping on the window. A white owl stood on the roof outside the glass! It cocked its head at me as if to say, “Well, are you going to open it?”

The twist knobs on the old-style windows were missing, but maybe… I lifted the lock and pushed on the frame. To my surprise, it opened!

The owl fluttered up to the landing and dropped a rolled piece of paper. Knowing, that Remus Lupin could’ve shown up while I was gone, I took the paper and its strange messenger in stride. Sure enough, it was signed by Remus.

img="message from Professor Lupin to author Kandi J Wyatt for Silmaril Awards"

No! Just what I’d been afraid of. I found a pen and hastily scribbled.

img="Message from author Kandi J Wyatt to Professor Lupin for Silmaril Awards 2026"

As I was eating breakfast in the cafeteria so my husband wouldn’t get jealous since he can’t have food until after the operation, my phone vibrated. A text message. Who hadn’t I given the most recent updates to? Donna? Wanda? Mom?

I frowned. Just a number. Warily I clicked on the text.

img="Text from Professor Hamilton to author Kandi J Wyatt"

Um… My brain tried to process this information.

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img="second message from Professor Hamilton to author Kandi J Wyatt"

Professor Hamilton? I vaguely remembered he was from Dragons in Our Midst; I quickly typed out:

Yes, sorry about that. I’m not at home at the moment. My husband is having his gallbladder removed. We should be back by Monday.

Soon my phone pinged again:

Sorry to hear that. That still leaves me here at the airport. There’s not much here.

I chuckled as I typed back.

No there isn’t. Do you think you could contact Gandalf? Maybe the eagles could help?

There were no further text messages, and I finished my hashbrowns and eggs in peace.


When I returned to the room, my husband was chatting with an agreeable gentleman who had a British accent.

“…closet,” the man said. “First time for everything.”

“Kandi, meet Professor Kirke.”

My eyes probably looked like they’d pop out of their sockets if Professor Kirke could see them behind my dark lenses.

“What are you doing here?”

The professor held up both hands with a shrug.

“We can clean out the back of the Prius and take him home,” my husband suggested.

I shook my head. “I suppose so, but I didn’t think it’d be this much trouble hosting the Silmaril Awards.”

“What is wrong?” The professor glanced about and then his mouth fell open in a dignified ‘Oh.’ “This is a hospital!”

I nodded. “And if all of the former winners are showing up at odd places, how will the new nominees make it where they belong?”

The professor tapped a finger to his chin. “Well, if we think of this logically…”

I groaned. “The Silmaril Awards aren’t logical professor. People around the world nominate their favorite fantasy book characters, by commenting on various blog sites. Then magically, those characters show up at my house! This isn’t my house; the North Bend Airport isn’t my house! How will the others find their right place?”

“What about social media?” My husband shifted in the hospital bed, laying down his phone. “You could post there all the rules, or at least calls to action. Have people go to the blogs and nominate their favorite fantasy book characters, like Aslan.”

“Yes.” I paused, and then realized. “Aslan can’t be nominated. He’s already a winner for wisest couns… el… or.” I let out a breath. “How is Aslan going to fit into my house?”

The professor placed a gentle hand on my shoulder. “Remember, he comes and goes as he pleases. If need be, he’ll make it work.”

“Thanks.”

A knock at the door interrupted us. “Excuse me. Are you Mr. Wyatt? I’m here to take you downstairs.”

As they moved my husband’s IV around, I motioned to the Professor to join me on the couch out of the way. At least, I’d have someone with me during the surgery.

“Don’t turn around,” the professor whispered. “I think the instructions were just broadcast across the sky.”

Ignoring his instructions, I turned and saw:

Silmaril Awards Dates

September 7-11: Nominations for Silmaril Awards
September 13-17: Vote for Silmaril Awards
September 20-Oct 2: Silmaril Awards Presentations

Silmaril Awards Hosts

Most Devoted Couple – T P Sarah at Light and Shadows
Most Epic Heroine – C. O. Bonham
Most Faithful Friend – Mackenzie K. Writes
Most Nefarious Villain – Janelle Leanne Schmidt
Wisest Counselor – Kandi J Wyatt
Strangest Character – E. E. Rawls
Most Magnificent Dragon – Rachel A. Greco
Most Epic Hero – DJ Edwards
Silver Tongue – S. L. Dooley
Most Rakish Rogue – Grace T

Let the nominations begin!

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Coming Soon: 11th Annual Silmaril Awards https://kandijwyatt.com/coming-soon-11th-annual-silmaril-awards/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=coming-soon-11th-annual-silmaril-awards https://kandijwyatt.com/coming-soon-11th-annual-silmaril-awards/#respond Tue, 01 Sep 2026 18:39:56 +0000 https://kandijwyatt.com/?p=10952 … Continue reading →]]> The Silmaril Awards are here! In celebration of Bilbo and Frodo’s birthdays, the awards are held in September. Tolkien and Lewis characters present the award at the end of the month. Someone said it’s like the Tony or Oscars, only it’s for Fantasy Characters from Books.

What are the Silmarils:

The Silmaril Awards are all about celebrating fantasy fiction. But whereas most awards go to authors or books, these awards go to the characters themselves!

Started in 2016, these awards are a four week online celebration of all that’s best in fantasy literature. There are several awards in various categories given every year. The characters who receive them have to be from books generally considered to be in the fantasy genre. And a given character cannot receive an award more than once. These are lifetime awards.

Also, as Tolkien is, for us, the gold standard of fantasy, his characters are not eligible to be nominated. That’s because they’ll be the ones presenting the awards in this cross-dimensional online ceremony. 

Nominations are submitted on the websites of each of the presenters for that year. Anyone can submit a nomination and you can second (and third and fourth, etc.) any number of nominations besides your own.

After the nomination period (lasting one week), the five characters receiving the most nominations will make it onto the ballot and you’ll have one week to vote. After the votes are tallied, the winners will be announced, one per day, over the final two weeks of the awards.

Who to look for

Since each year, the different bloggers host different categories, you’ll find last year’s Most Faithful Friend on my blog.

This year, I get to hang out with none other than all the wisest counselors! That means that Gandalf and who knows who else will be hanging out in my 1880’s old stagecoach home. Maybe we can pretend it’s a castle?

But how does it work? I’m glad you asked. Starting September 7, you’ll be leaving comments on my blogs as well as others to nominate your favorite characters.

Rules for nominations:

Characters must be fantasy characters from books. This means no sci-fi, no contemporary, AND no webcomics, graphic novels, movies, and so on. If the story was a book first, but then got its own webcomic, graphic novel, characters from said story are eligible, but otherwise, sadly, they are not permitted. If there’s a book which might be seen as sci-fi, contemporary, or something else non-fantasy but you think has enough fantasy elements to count (for instance, The Lunar Chronicles, for the sake of the Silmaril Awards, count as fantasy, though they are rather sci-fi-y), make your case in the comments, and we will certainly consider it. 

Tolkien’s and Lewis’s characters are not allowed. Given that, in the awards ceremony at the end of the month, one of Tolkien’s characters (and potentially a few of Lewis’s) will be presenting this award, you really don’t want the conflict of interest that might result from the presenting characters being nominated for the award. Especially if they don’t win the final vote. It can get ugly, y’all. 

An author may not nominate (or second) his or her own characters. It’s just undignified and unprofessional, guys. Don’t do it. However, you of course may send your hyped-up readers to nominate and/or second your characters. (Winning a Silmaril would be really good publicity, just saying.)

Rule-breakers are sent immediately over to Rachel A. Greco, who’s hosting the dragons this year, to be eaten. Look, I don’t make the rules, I just enforce them. If you don’t want to follow these rules, prepare to be a dragon’s lunch. And vice versa–if you don’t want to be a dragon’s lunch, prepare to follow the rules. 

Former Wise Counselor Winners

Silmarils are a one-time thing, so a character may only win a category once. Here are the characters who have already won this award:

-Helmer (The Green Ember)
-Queen Irene (Princess and the Goblin)
-Nia (The Wingfeather Saga)
-Merlin (Arthurian Legends)
-Puddleglum (The Chronicles of Narnia)
-Halt (Ranger’s Apprentice)
-Remus Lupin (Harry Potter)
-Professor Kirke (The Chronicles of Narnia)
-Professor Hamilton (Dragons in Our Midst)
-Aslan (The Chronicles of Narnia)


Well, I’d best get to cleaning. We have enough room in this place, but my guest will expect some cleanliness. Let’s see how well this year’s Silmaril Awards go. Who knows, I may meet a new friend, or get to spend time with an old one. Who do you want to see win?

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Parents of school-age children often hit the same wall: the usual after-school activities fill time, but they don’t always spark creativity or fit a child’s changing interests. Between busy schedules, limited local options, and the pressure to “pick the right thing,” the parenting challenge becomes finding something that feels meaningful instead of just convenient. Many families want creative enrichment options that support children’s personal growth, build real confidence, and keep curiosity alive. The goal is simple, expanding children’s horizons.

Why Nontraditional Learning Builds Confidence

Nontraditional learning opportunities are activities that teach through doing, creating, and experimenting instead of following a set script. The heart of it is creative learning as an engaging and imaginative process, where kids get more say in how they learn and show what they know. That freedom often sparks new interests and strengthens real-world skills.

This matters because confidence grows when kids see themselves improve through practice, not just performance. It also widens their perspective by showing there is more than one “right” way to solve a problem. The fact that 48% of parents prefer a hybrid learning model reflects how many families value flexible paths.

Think of a child who hates worksheets but lights up in a stop-motion animation club. They plan, revise, ask questions, and share a final project they can proudly show. The same child often starts taking healthy risks in other areas, too. That mindset makes it easier to protect quality time with simple, shared routines that still feel meaningful.

Build a 15‑Minute After‑School Routine You Can Do Together

When kids get chances to explore and create, they grow, but they also need to feel your steady presence behind the scenes. One of the simplest ways to protect that connection during busy seasons is to pick an after-school activity you can do with your child, even if it’s just 15 minutes. The goal isn’t a big production; it’s consistency. When you have a small plan of attack, your child reliably gets quality time with you, and you don’t carry the same pressure to “make it up” later. That together-time can look a few different ways:

  • Join their activity in a small, doable way, sit down and participate alongside them rather than supervising from across the room.
  • Be available for bedtime every night when you can, so the day ends with connection.
  • Invite them into simple chores while you’re working in the kitchen, so being together doesn’t depend on having extra hours.
  • Plan a new experience together (something to look forward to), which builds closeness even before it happens.

If you need help thinking through busy-season priorities without adding more guilt to your plate, it can be reassuring to map out what matters most. Once you’ve protected that small daily “us” moment, it’s easier to choose from a wider menu of outside-the-box activities that fit your child’s age and interests.

Pick Outside-the-Box Activities (With Age-Friendly Examples)

A good after-school activity doesn’t have to be a big weekly commitment. If you already have a simple 15‑minute together routine, these options plug right in, try one in “tiny mode” first, then build only if your child asks for more.

  1. Run a “craft skill ladder,” not random crafts: Pick one craft learning goal for 2–3 weeks (cutting, stitching, weaving, origami folds) and repeat it with small upgrades. For younger kids, that might be cutting straight lines → zigzags → simple shapes; for older kids, sewing a button → repairing a tear → making a mini pouch. Keeping a “before/after” page in a notebook helps kids see progress, which boosts confidence.
  2. Make arts education feel like a mini studio, not a worksheet: Choose one artist “move” per week, shading, collage layering, perspective, or color mixing, and do a 15‑minute warm-up side by side. Then let your child make one “final piece” on the weekend using the same move. A helpful north star is that 63% of young people who engage in creative activities report increased confidence and reduced stress/anxiety.
  3. Try instrument lessons in a “micro-lesson” format at home: Instead of “practice for 30 minutes,” set a timer for 8–12 minutes and focus on one bite-size win: one riff, one chord change, or four clean measures. For ages 5–8, rhythm instruments or simple keyboard patterns work well; ages 9–12 can track a short practice streak and choose a “showcase song” every month. End by recording a 20‑second clip so they can hear improvement over time.
  4. Build language acquisition into daily life with a theme week: Pick one theme, snacks, sports, pets, feelings, and learn 8–12 useful words plus 2 short phrases. Use them during your existing 15‑minute routine (label items, act out verbs, play “I spy” in the target language). Older kids can add a weekly voice note or short comic strip using the theme words.
  5. Do a “kitchen STEM” experiment series with one variable at a time: Choose experiments you can repeat with small changes: paper airplanes (wing shape), slime (ratio), plants (light), or ice melt (salt/sugar/sand). Keep it simple: write a guess, change one thing, and note what happened. For teens, STEM programs can be especially worthwhile, one review found STEM education showed stronger cognitive outcomes in high school.
  6. Start kid-friendly entrepreneurship with a tiny, low-stakes project: Pick a one-week “mini business” that fits your family schedule: a bookmark-making table, a dog-walk flyer for neighbors you know, or a donation drive. Ideas like selling homemade crafts help kids practice pricing, presentation, and polite communication without needing big startup costs. Keep the goal small, earn enough for one shared treat or donate proceeds to a cause they choose.
  7. Create a rotating “choice board” so quitting turns into tweaking: Post 10 options (mix crafts, art, music, language, STEM, and entrepreneurship) and let your child pick 2 per week: one easy comfort choice, one stretch choice. If motivation dips, swap the format before you ditch the whole activity, shorter sessions, a different theme, or doing it together during your 15‑minute routine. These small experiments make it easier to balance costs, time, and follow-through without turning after school into a battle.

Common Questions Parents Ask About After-School Ideas

Q: What if I can’t tell which activity my child will actually like?
A: Start with a short “taste test” week and watch for energy, not perfection. The five core dimensions can guide you: do they enjoy it, want it often, prefer doing it alone or together, and like the setting? Let them choose the next tiny step.

Q: How do I balance activities with homework and downtime?
A: Pick a hard stop time and protect decompression first, even if that means only 10 minutes of an activity. It also helps to consider how they will affect the entire family so your schedule stays calm and predictable.

Q: Can I support my child’s interests without pushing too hard?
A: Aim for encouragement, not outcomes: notice effort, curiosity, and problem-solving. Offer two options and let them pick, then end on a “we’ll pause here” note before frustration spikes.

Q: How do we build consistency when motivation is all over the place?
A: Keep the same small time slot on most days so it becomes automatic. Track streaks with something simple like a calendar dot or one sentence about what they tried.

Q: What should I do when an activity melts down or they want to quit?
A: Treat it as feedback, not failure: reduce the difficulty, shorten the session, or switch materials. Ask one question, “What part felt too hard?” then help them make one change for next time.

Build Confidence Through One New After-School Choice This Week

It’s easy to feel stuck between wanting kids to try more and worrying about over-scheduling or choosing the “wrong” activity. A steadier path is a positive parenting outlook that treats after-school time as low-pressure experimentation, guided by empowering parental choices and honest check-ins. When that mindset leads, confidence in activity selection grows, and so does a child’s curiosity, independence, and other developmental benefits as their horizons expand. One new experience at a time is how confidence is built. Choose one small next step this week, sign up for a trial, visit a club, or simply ask which idea feels worth testing. Those small yeses build resilience and connection that carry well beyond the school year.


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Katherine Williams knows that one of the most difficult things about parenting is taking good care of yourself so you can take the best care of your children. She created When the Baby Sleeps to help parents prioritize self-care so they can be there for their kids. She knows that finding time for self-care as a parent never gets easier, but she hopes the advice and resources shared on her site will help her visitors be their best parenting selves.

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